A client of mine recently had a confusing interaction with her ex-husband. The two had been separated for some time but had children together and maintained a civil relationship. One day he came over and spent the day at her place playing with the kids and behaving as if nothing had changed. After a day […]
In the immortal words of The Clash, should I stay or should I go? It’s this question that’s been bouncing around in your head like an overexcited electron. You’re wondering if a brief separation can save your marriage. If time and space will free up the ability to think more clearly about your romantic future. […]
The fact that you have reached this page only means one thing: you are wanting to understand how to save your marriage from divorce. And most probably, you are having to deal with the green-eyed monster that so many women have to face when it comes to marriage – the belief that you are not enough. […]
Your Standards of Integrity are everything One thing I’ve noticed over the years with my work and also interviewing hundreds (if not thousands) of people is how connected every aspect of life is… If you think you can be a certain way in your relationship but then in all other aspects of life, you are operating with […]
Ok, so I want you to think about the last fight or argument you got into with your man… Whatever the reason for it was, just have a think about it. Maybe you started it or maybe he started it… Either way, just go back to the argument. When he said […]
Let’s all be honest here. You’re flat out busy and you just need some help. Work, kids, shopping, cooking, cleaning etc are your priorities but it just feels like you’re all on your own. The anger and frustration builds up inside and you just want your man to come to the party […]
I’ve been talking to a number of clients this week and one thing has really stood out for me. I’ll get comments like: “I hate feeling vulnerable” “It makes me feel week” “It makes me feel needy and I give away my power completely” Now, as a man, I can […]
If you’re at that point in your relationship and you’re feeling lost, frustrated, angry, sad and isolated in the process, then you are not alone. Every time you try and make the effort to improve your situation, it just backfires. There’s plenty of advice on the internet but let’s face it, most of […]
So it’s time to have a chat with your man… You sit down and begin to explain to him some of the issues you are having in the relationship. As you rattle them off you sense he starts to become defensive… This body language starts to change. You notice he’s starting […]