Saving a marriage sometimes feels like attempting to save a sinking ship. While initially, this ship was structurally sound, years and years battling against the ocean have created structural damage that was never adequately assessed. Years of negligence means that you’re taking on water faster than you can manage and that soon enough you’ll be […]

Every relationship is a seesaw. Both the good ones and the bad ones and every relationship in between. A healthy relationship may have that seesaw swing back and forth but for the most part both partners will remain on level footing. If partners in an unhealthy marriage saw on that same seesaw you’d see it […]

You’ve spent years, maybe even decades growing roots. Thick, strong roots that touch every aspect of your life. But lately it feels as if all those strong roots are wilting away and that they could be uprooted at a moment’s notice. The idea of separating from someone who’s been such an integral piece of your […]