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I get it. It’s difficult to see a way out of your situation when you’ve hit rock bottom. It feels like you’ve tried everything but to no avail. Like no matter what you do you’re left feeling defeated. I can understand that it’s difficult to see how things could change. But even though you feel […]
Sri Rajasekar
5/12/23
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Saving your marriage can feel like more than saving the relationship between two people – it can feel like saving a life. Your entire world is wrapped up in your relationship. What you eat, the bed you share, where you live, your friends, children, home, hobbies – your husband has a hand to play in […]
Sri Rajasekar
5/03/23
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Why is it that we actively work against what we want most? That we have a goal in mind but purposefully take detours and burn bridges, preventing ourselves from what we desire. So many women have come to me with self-sabotaging behavior. Angie, Laurie, Michell, Sarah, and a host of other women have self-sabotaged – […]
Sri Rajasekar
4/12/23
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Every relationship is a seesaw. Both the good ones and the bad ones and every relationship in between. A healthy relationship may have that seesaw swing back and forth but for the most part both partners will remain on level footing. If partners in an unhealthy marriage saw on that same seesaw you’d see it […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/24/23
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More than anything, there is one characteristic that is holding your marriage back. One characteristic that isn’t just living in your head rent-free, but has purchased the space and is now renting it out as an Airbnb. It’s how you manage this trait that will determine whether your marriage is successful or whether it wilts. […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/10/23
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I’m going to tell you something that you’ll find difficult to hear. This is all temporary. I know it feels like you’re drowning in quicksand but this too shall pass. This isn’t just some platitude that has been recycled to the point of losing all meaning. Rather, I speak from experience. I spend my days […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/03/23
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There are many ways to bind a marriage together. You can do it with laughter, shared values, children, and a million other things. I, however, believe that if you don’t have trust, all those other bindings will eventually lose their adhesive. Trust isn’t just the super glue but the rose-colored glasses that makes everything else […]
Sri Rajasekar
2/23/23
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I know things are rough right now. But by being here right now you’re putting yourself in a position to create a better tomorrow. No matter how deep the hole you’re in feels there’s always a way out, you just need a plan. Right now you feel one or two ways. You either want to […]
Sri Rajasekar
2/15/23
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I know you love your husband. If you didn’t you wouldn’t be here. You would have let the marriage wilt and moved on. It hurts that you feel as though the affection in your marriage is one-sided. That the relationship you once had is now gone. I’m here to tell you that may not be […]
