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Every relationship is a seesaw. Both the good ones and the bad ones and every relationship in between. A healthy relationship may have that seesaw swing back and forth but for the most part both partners will remain on level footing. If partners in an unhealthy marriage saw on that same seesaw you’d see it […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/24/23
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More than anything, there is one characteristic that is holding your marriage back. One characteristic that isn’t just living in your head rent-free, but has purchased the space and is now renting it out as an Airbnb. It’s how you manage this trait that will determine whether your marriage is successful or whether it wilts. […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/10/23
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I’m going to tell you something that you’ll find difficult to hear. This is all temporary. I know it feels like you’re drowning in quicksand but this too shall pass. This isn’t just some platitude that has been recycled to the point of losing all meaning. Rather, I speak from experience. I spend my days […]
Sri Rajasekar
3/03/23
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There are many ways to bind a marriage together. You can do it with laughter, shared values, children, and a million other things. I, however, believe that if you don’t have trust, all those other bindings will eventually lose their adhesive. Trust isn’t just the super glue but the rose-colored glasses that makes everything else […]
Sri Rajasekar
2/23/23
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I know things are rough right now. But by being here right now you’re putting yourself in a position to create a better tomorrow. No matter how deep the hole you’re in feels there’s always a way out, you just need a plan. Right now you feel one or two ways. You either want to […]
Sri Rajasekar
2/15/23
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I know you love your husband. If you didn’t you wouldn’t be here. You would have let the marriage wilt and moved on. It hurts that you feel as though the affection in your marriage is one-sided. That the relationship you once had is now gone. I’m here to tell you that may not be […]
Sri Rajasekar
2/03/23
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It’s 2023 and many of us are still working out our resolutions and how we’ll achieve them. If you’re here now it’s because you’re chief resolution is saving your marriage. But how do you go about doing that? With so many ways to go about it, what strategies actually work? As a marriage coach for […]
Sri Rajasekar
1/27/23
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You’ve spent years, maybe even decades growing roots. Thick, strong roots that touch every aspect of your life. But lately it feels as if all those strong roots are wilting away and that they could be uprooted at a moment’s notice. The idea of separating from someone who’s been such an integral piece of your […]
Sri Rajasekar
1/18/23
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2023 is the year that we accomplish all our hopes and dreams. You must love that new year cheer and optimism. It’s why so many of us make and believe we’ll accomplish our new year’s resolutions (only for most to end by February 14th). But while others are resolving to lose weight or quit smoking […]
