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There are few things more difficult that a human can go through than a divorce. Not like I need to tell you that but it helps to have your pain validated. Having your entire life uprooted can feel apocalyptic. I know it’s incredibly difficult – the women I speak with every week tell me about […]
Spencer Blash
12/02/22
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They say that women are the gentler, more reticent sex – I disagree. Men are notorious for their inability to communicate effectively. That’s not a personal opinion, it’s just science. More neurons in the part of the brain dedicated to language and emotions mean women are wired differently than men. So it’s no surprise that […]
Sri Rajasekar
11/23/22
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Screaming, throwing a plate, crying until you’re dehydrated, and crying in the arms of a loved one all might seem like a good idea right about now. As an initial response, to learning your husband wants a divorce these are all valid reactions. But there will come a time soon enough when you’ll want to […]
Sri Rajasekar
11/17/22
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Men love to claim that women never say what they mean. That they need to channel their inner Sherlock Holmes to truly understand what they want. I’d say it’s the opposite. More so than women, it’s men that struggle with communicating how they feel and what they want. That’s why you may be so taken […]
Spencer Blash
11/04/22
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A sacred pact has been broken. Your husband has strayed and now you’re left wondering how to heal from cheating and move forward. I know it seems as though the world will forever be stuck in this moment, but you’re not trapped in quicksand. Men have been cheating on women since the advent of monogamy. […]
Sri Rajasekar
10/26/22
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Humans aren’t exactly the most faithful species. Owl monkeys, bald eagles, and prairie voles are a one-partner type of species. They find their soulmate, mate, and live out the rest of their lives with that one partner. But these creatures are anomalies. Among the living, from bonobos to the honeybee, monogamy isn’t the rule but […]
Sri Rajasekar
10/19/22
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Being cheated on feels like the world you knew was once an illusion. The stable marriage you once had has gone up in smoke as you now feel unsettled adjusting to your new reality. When the rug has been swept from under your feet it’s natural that you feel a bit disoriented. Being cheated on […]
Spencer Blash
10/06/22
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It can be difficult to see the future when you realize your husband is cheating on you. The maelstrom of emotions brought on by this news can paralyze you. The storm has only just begun, so seeing the light on the horizon may seem pointless. But there is a way to move forward. If you’re […]
Sri Rajasekar
9/28/22
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For some, the signs of an impending apocalypse come in the form of the earth’s water rising above the mountains or the earth literally splitting in two. But lately, it feels as though an impending separation is the only sign you need. Life may feel a bit apocalyptic right now, but I can assure you […]
