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It’s common knowledge that the best way to resolve a dispute is to say nothing. To walk away and never broach the subject that caused the rift in the first place… right? Not a chance. We’ve all had times when we wanted to ghost our romantic partners. To put them on mute Black Mirror style […]
Sri Rajasekar
8/31/22
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You never thought the apocalypse would look like this. It would have been easier to imagine a massive famine, WWIII, and tsunamis on both coasts than it would be to imagine your husband leaving you. But here we are. I say we because you’re not alone. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. I’m sure […]
Sri Rajasekar
8/24/22
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A client of mine recently had a confusing interaction with her ex-husband. The two had been separated for some time but had children together and maintained a civil relationship. One day he came over and spent the day at her place playing with the kids and behaving as if nothing had changed. After a day […]
Sri Rajasekar
8/10/22
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Something delightfully strange has been happening recently. Client after client has shared with me the same good news. After a separation, their husbands now want to rejoin their lives and get back together. It’s odd though. Why after all the heartbreak and turmoil of a separation would a partner want to now repair a bridge […]
Sri Rajasekar
8/03/22
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Till death do us part… Most married couples have said these words, but few ultimately live by them. That’s because the divorce rate in the US is about 39%. I don’t say this to scare you, rather to help you understand that you’re not alone. Marriages are roller coasters, with plenty of ups and downs. […]
Sri Rajasekar
7/27/22
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20% of husbands ultimately cheat on their wives. That amounts to millions of husbands behaving unfaithfully to their wives. It can make you lose hope in romance and the institution of marriage. I say this not to put you down but to help you know that a possible cheating husband isn’t a problem that you […]
Sri Rajasekar
7/20/22
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In the immortal words of The Clash, should I stay or should I go? It’s this question that’s been bouncing around in your head like an overexcited electron. You’re wondering if a brief separation can save your marriage. If time and space will free up the ability to think more clearly about your romantic future. […]
Sri Rajasekar
7/06/22
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You thought mixed messages were behind you when you married. Not knowing what your romantic partner is thinking is for first dates right? As you and I well know, the mixed messages don’t stop even after you’ve married – especially if a relationship is on the fritz. It can be terrifying not knowing what your […]
Sri Rajasekar
6/29/22
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Has your husband been a bit off lately? Does he have dreams of grandeur, has he ditched his routine, and has he been obsessing over the past? These are all signs of a midlife crisis. Everyone’s midlife crisis manifests itself differently. Some people purchase expensive sports cars while others become gym rats. Whatever his signs […]
Sri Rajasekar
6/22/22
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Yes. I won’t build up suspense and make you wait another 200 words for the answer. Plain and simple, men regret losing a good woman. You’re probably asking do men regret losing a good woman because you’ve recently separated or are growing distant from your romantic partner. Your partner is fully aware of who he’s […]
